i attended a wedding. well, i actually sang for the newly-weds. though, i was with a choir. this wedding was different. it was a Christian wedding. it was held in a wonderful place in Taguig. it was very intimate and very solemn. it was a beautiful wedding. what was also interesting, aside from the delicious food and nice giveaways, was the pastor's advice to the couple during homily.
"don't leave things left unsaid." a very short phrase. but, it was really meaningful. the pastor was actually friends with the couple, so he kind of knew the love story of the two. the groom actually had second thoughts of telling the girl that he loves her. he was afraid because he thought he will be rejected. but he thought that there is no harm in trying. at least he tried and told her about his feelings. the pastor said if the groom did not tell what he felt for the one he loves and just moved away, they would not be doing what they were doing at that very moment. they were already getting married.
as for me, i often, or maybe sometimes, say things that i should say. having said that, i had already left a lot of things left unsaid. i know, it hurts to not tell those things to people who should hear them. i guess, i am just afraid. i am afraid because people would not accept them. i am afraid that it might cost us our friendship. so, i just keep them to myself. sometimes, i think of those unsaid things and imagine what would actually happen if i actually said it to them.
there are just things that should be left unsaid and things left said. sometimes, even though you should not say it, you just say it, too. just to release the negativity. so, if you have something to say, say it. say it out loud. and do not regret that you said it.
hanggang sa muli, masugid na mambabasa. :)